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Attempted suicide in SZ suggests disturbing trend

Posted: 10/17/2012 7:00 am

On the same day it was reported that the average age of patients with high blood pressure was decreasing in Shenzhen, the news came out of a 17 year-old in the city who announced he would commit suicide on Tianya but was rescued by police.

After publishing photos of his own slit wrists, he drank several beers and prepared to jump off a balcony in Xili Subdistrict before police got to him on time.

Are the lives of young people in Shenzhen so miserable?

Last year, suicide was descibed as a “cultural problem” in China by the Freakonomics blog. A person attempts to commit suicide in the country every two minutes, according to Guangzhou Daily, and the number of suicides has risen sharply along with overall prosperity during the Reform & Opening Up Period.

The demographics of suicide in China are unique. As well as being the only country in which the female suicide rate is higher than the male (what does that tell you about being the wife of a Chinese man?); suicide victims are on average much younger than in most countries.

The disease control centre said suicide is the biggest killer among Chinese aged 15 to 34, suggesting that now is a particularly bad time to be young in China.

Perhaps the reasons the Shenzhen man cited for killing himself were even more disturbing than the attempt itself. The man, identified as Shi Dong, wrote online over the weekend that he was planning to attempt suicide because he had lost 4,000 yuan (US$635), all of his savings, while gambling and his girlfriend had decided to break up with him, according to Shenzhen Daily.

Does being broke make life lose its meaning, even at 17?

Considering that young people these days are nothing if not tech-savvy, quite a few suicides have been announced online, this disturbing new trend that was observed by techinasia last year has ended in both rescues and tragedies.

The most recent case of this happening in Shenzhen ended in a resuce, just like a similar incident that happened in Jinan in 2010. But similar cases have ended in tragedy, such as one in Shenzhen earlier this month.

It seems that losing the will to live doesn’t always go hand in hand with losing hunger for the spotlight.

Haohao
  • A Chinese Man

    “what does that tell you about being the wife of a Chinese man?”

    Care to elaborate?

    • http://www.thenanfang.com Kevin McGeary

      The Nanfang’s writing style is similar to that of Beijing Cream and Shanghaiist. It is full of asides, comments and subtle digs as well as reportage.

      That particular remark was just a cheeky suggestion, not a verdict on whether Chinese make good husbands.

      • A Chinese Man

        Just a cheeky suggestion huh? I would have had more respect for you Kevin had you simply owned up to your comment instead of being a passive-aggressive wank.

        • http://www.thenanfang.com Kevin McGeary

          Nothing passive-aggressive about it. If you’re offended by it then that’s up to you. To quote Charlie Brooker: “I hate offended people. They come in two flavours – huffy and whiny – and it’s hard to know which is worse. The huffy ones are self-important, narcissistic authoritarians in love with the sound of their own booming disapproval, while the whiny, sparrowlike ones are so annoying and sickly and ill-equipped for life on Earth you just want to smack them round the head until they stop crying and grow up. Combined, they’re the very worst people on the planet – 20 times worse than child molesters, and I say that not because it’s true (it isn’t), but because it’ll upset them unnecessarily, and these readers deserve to be upset unnecessarily, morning, noon and night, every sodding day, for the rest of their wheedling lives.”

          • A Chinese Man

            Charlie Brooker? Now there’s a guy that wouldn’t back-down from something he wrote or said. And someone worth emulating. Beijing Cream? Shanghaiist? Not so much.

          • http://www.thenanfang.com Kevin McGeary

            Now for a more considered response.

            Although this particular aspect of suicide in China is not the focus of the article, I think the statistic of China having a particularly high female suicide rate is of sociological interest. Don’t you?

            And it surely says something about attitudes to women and marital values in China. Have you read “The Good Women of China” by Xinran?

            This is a conversation worth having. Nobody’s right and we all learn from each other, that is why it was phrased as a question, because it could well be the subject of a future article on this site.

  • A Chinese Man

    Did not have a ‘reply’ button to your last comment Kevin, so new comment.

    Thanks for your reply. Yes, the high female suicide rate in China certainly caught my interest. I forget exactly when I was first alerted to the statistic (several years ago?) but I remember it was a WTF moment for me. The knowledge shed some light on things I observed as an overseas Chinese with immigrant parents and relatives — attitudes towards women (as you mentioned), also attitudes towards men, marital roles and expectations, and then ultimately, how those things informed my life as a western child/adult.

    I haven’t read Xinran’s book but will add it to my list – thanks. And I’m looking forward to a future article on the subject.

    • http://www.thenanfang.com Kevin McGeary

      I heartily recommend anything by Xinran. She takes her patriotism too far sometimes, but “The Good Women of China”, although far from an easy read, is one of the most powerful of her works.

      And as for our initial exchanges….most of my good friends are people I left a bad first impression on,

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